We’re in Offbeat Bride! A Cake & Punch Wedding

Providing creative alternatives for independent brides, Offbeat Bride is one of the most well loved blogs and websites for brides who prefer to carve their own path.  So we couldn’t be more excited to be featured on the site, as they highlight a styled photoshoot we did around a Cake & Punch themed wedding.

offbeat bride floral flower hair

Our photoshoot was a nod to the 1950’s and 60’s trend of more simple “cake and punch” weddings, where receptions were small and centered around the gathering of family and just a bit of cake and drink.  Yet we gave it a modern edge with a bride adorned in tattoos and a floral fauxhawk, with a mix and match of estate and antique jewels.

cake and punch themed wedding offbeat bride

Head on over to Offbeat Bride to see the full set of inspiring photos!

Mother’s Day 2017 Gift Guide

Whether for your own mother, a new mother, or the mother of your children, jewelry makes a meaningful and perfect gift for Mother’s Day.  The Stacey Fay shop has one-of-a-kind antique and vintage jewels, symbolic handmade pieces, and special custom designs available – see below for this year’s best picks, be sure to visit the shop to see others, and be in touch to create a custom piece.

Vintage & Antique Lockets

You can’t go wrong with lockets for Mother’s Day! Whether one with “Mom” across the front, or one with a sentimental buckle motif, you’re sure to find the perfect one.

Vintage Mom gold filled locket
Can you get a locket that is any more perfect for the holiday?
Vintage 12k gold filled Art Deco locket
Beautifully engraved Art Deco gold filled locket.
Antique 835 silver gold vermeil locket
Gold over sterling silver oval locket with a unique shield engraving in the center.











Antique Victorian sterling silver buckle locket
A rare and old Victorian sterling locket with a buckle motif. Since buckles, or belts, loop in on themselves, they symbolize eternal love.

Custom Mother’s Necklaces

A bestseller is the custom Mother’s Necklace, made-to-order.  I can stamp many different combinations of letters and symbols, and can even offer different shapes for the outline of the piece. Be in touch to get started on yours.

Custom stamped nameplate necklace
Two kids with the same initials resulted in this clever nameplate!
Custom stamped and wax seal jewelry
You cannot get much cuter than this “Great Grammy” necklace with a rose wax seal in front
Handmade stamped heart charm
A heart shaped charm with a loving term of endearment
Handmade stamped new mother necklace
A bunny he asked for and a bunny he received! A sentimental charm with the initials of the new baby.
Handmade initial charm and wax seal jewelry
Simple and sweet combination of a single initial and a flower wax seal charm

Vintage Tokens of Affection

Mother’s Day is to honor the women who gave us love, helped us grow, and are ushering in the next generation.  The shop has many different jewelry pieces with the most common and adored symbols of love.

Vintage 800 silver hand painted rose necklace
A handpainted rose under glass, in a vintage 800 silver setting
Antique WWII Lady Liberty mercury dime heart pendant charm
A WWII “Lady Liberty” heart shaped necklace, made from a mercury dime.
Vintage 14k gold puffy heart charm necklace
A sweet and simple gold puffy heart charm necklace. As classic as it is versatile.
Vintage ruby and diamond love ring
If she likes fun pieces, she will love this kitschy ruby and diamond “love” ring
Vintage 14k gold .25 carat diamond heart ring
Classic and stackable gold diamond heart band.

Symbolic Wax Seal Necklaces

Each of our wax seal necklaces is made from a genuine antique stamp, most from the late 1800’s, that were once used to seal letters of all kinds, including love letters.

Antique wax seal jewelry

There are countless beautiful, meaningful wax seal charm necklaces which make for a perfect Mother’s Day gift.

Handmade rose wax seal necklace
A rose is the most classic symbol of love and affection, and this necklace is extremely versatile as well.
A dove descends upon two hearts, symbolizing two souls, two hearts linked forever
“L’Amour” – French for love
Eye + Cupid + Yew Tree = I love you.

Feminine Pieces At All Price Points

Last but certainly not least, sometimes you just need a beautiful Mother’s Day gift for your wife or friend who is a new (or seasoned!) mother, and you don’t necessarily need meaning behind it.  Here are a few good options from the shop, at varying price points.

Vintage diamond stud earrings
Classic studs which she can wear even while attending to a newborn!
Vintage floating opal necklace
A mystical and beautiful 1940’s floating opal necklace
Vintage 14k gold coral cameo earrings
Simple and sweet vintage coral cameo earrings
Vintage Art Deco Czech glass red earrings
Rare, collectible and beautiful Art Deco Czech glass earrings
Antique sunburst pearl and diamond necklace
An absolutely stunning Edwardian sunburst pearl and diamond brooch pendant necklace









Vintage sterling silver engraved teardrop earrings
Dainty and classic engraved sterling teardrop earrings
Vintage 1920's Art Deco celluloid orange bangle
Any Art Deco lover will go wild for this 1920’s celluloid bangle





Vintage Fashion and Jewelry Photoshoot

Brocade, silk, satin, gold, diamonds, enamel…the combination of vintage clothing and jewelry can be intoxicating! We collaborated with photographer Kylene Cleaver of Leave It To Me Photography  to pull together an epic styled photoshoot, with a vibrant color story, feminine details, and a modern edge.

Vintage clothing for styled photoshoot
It all started with the clothing…

Like any good photoshoot, hair and makeup were key to bring the story to life.  We were lucky enough to partner with Leisa Kanienberg of iMakeupArtistry for vintage inspired makeup, and Lauren Thrailkill from the Velvet Hair Studio for beautiful hair. It was amazing to see them match the hair and makeup so perfectly to the outfits!

Behind-the-scenes of vintage photoshoot. Hair styling.
Lauren of the Velvet Hair Studio preps Diana’s hair for major curls
iMakeupArtistry does vintage inspired makeup for photoshoot
Leisa of iMakeupArtistry creates Kathleen’s soft makeup look

Once the hair, makeup, and outfits were ready, it was time for us to style the jewelry.  We created jewelry sets for each look, with jewelry spanning Victorian times through the 1980’s.  Our goal was not one set time period, but rather to compliment the colors of the vintage clothing and the personalities of each of the ladies.

Vintage gold and gold filled jewelry for vintage photoshoot.
Lots of bohemian gold pieces were used with Diana’s vibrant purple brocade dress
Victorian and Art Deco jewelry
Old Victorian and Art Deco jewelry was used for Cynthia’s classic green velvet dress and fur cape look.

Then the time came!  Kylene worked her magic behind the lens, taking incredible photos of each of the models.

Antique Victorian portrait earrings

Vintage velvet and fur dress in styled photoshoot

Vintage rings on fur cape









Cynthia’s look was all about soft lines and draping, and a classic style reminiscent of decades past. Cascading waves finished the look, and her cat eye was on point!

  • A crushed green velvet halter dress
  • 1950’s fur cape (that we salvaged!)
  • An Art Deco aquamarine ring, Victorian portrait earrings (Stacey’s personal collection), Victorian emerald infinity ring (sold) and an Art Deco green jasper ring.

Egyptian woman in vintage brocade dress, vintage gold bangles, rings and anklet

Vintage gold jewelry bohemian look

Vintage damascene Spanish earring







Diana’s look was as fun and bohemian as her vibrant personality. Lauren did an incredible job on Diana’s hair, bringing out the curls in a soft and voluminous way.

Vintage suede and fur coat with green vintage dress and vintage jewelry by Stacey Fay Designs

Vintage suede and fur coat

Vintage gold filled bib necklace and Chinese enamel bird pin









Gina had a Mafia-meets-Peaky Blinds vibe – so fierce! We just can’t get over the gorgeous combination of that green and peach.  Her jewelry matched her look, bold.

  • Vintage green strapless dress
  • Retro 1960’s orange suede and fur collar coat
  • Gold filled bib necklace (email for inquiries), 1940’s Chinese enamel bird pin, a funky and amazing gold filled watch ring (Stacey’s personal collection), a H. Stern domed sputnik ring, and Italian micro mosaic bracelet (sold).

Vintage gold brocade dress and vintage Dolce and Gabanna coat.

Vintage gold brocade dress and vintage Dolce and Gabanna coat, Wonder Woman pose.

Vintage gold brocade dress with Edwardian pearl and diamond sunburst necklace.

Vintage gold brocade dress and gold jewelry

Kate’s look was classic meets modern, and a focus on texture and movement.  This woman knows how to strike a pose!

  • 1960’s gold brocade sleeveless dress
  • Incredible vintage Dolce and Gabbana brocade coat bought many moons ago at Malena’s Vintage Boutique
  • Statement 1960’s gold tone earrings (Kylene’s personal collection), Edwardian pearl and diamond sunburst necklace, and gorgeous emerald cocktail ring Kate donned as a pinky ring.

Vintage cream lace and pink tulle bridesmaid dress

Vintage bracelet stack with lace and tulle bridesmaid dress.

Vintage earring stack with opal and tourmaline.









Last but certainly not least is the ethereal and romantic look of Kathleen.  You can’t get much more feminine and beautiful!

  • See-through vintage lace top, with an Edwardian feel
  • Coral tiered tulle skirt, which Kylene repurposed from a vintage dress
  • Earrings were doubled up, with tourmaline scarab drops paired with vintage opal gold filled studs (not yet listed – email for inquiries). Bracelets were stacked, with costume jewelry paired with fine jewelry – a half carat gold diamond hinged bangle, antique hinged opal bangle, and brass and purple glass bracelet. One lone ring made it into the mix – a stunning Victorian garnet ring (Stacey’s personal collection).

What a day! Thank you to our gorgeous models – strong, amazing and real women – Gina, Diana, Kate, Cynthia and Kathleen.  We couldn’t have done it without you.

Stay tuned on the blog for upcoming styled shoots.

Vintage styled photoshoot

5 Tips for Buying Vintage Jewelry

Perhaps your thrill is Saturday morning yard sales in warmer weather.  Or maybe you’re the Ebay aficionado, always looking for that opportunity to get a treasure at a low price.  Or perhaps you’re just a lover of vintage jewelry, but too intimidated to get your feet wet.

I was all of these things, and often still am – I will always go out of my way, with excitement, to find the treasure in the rough at a yard sale, estate sale, or on Ebay.  Like everyone, I started with an interest in this but very little knowledge, and had to build up over time to be able to source and offer what you now see in my Etsy shop.

Keep in mind, buying vintage jewelry is much like a puzzle – you need to piece together several bits of information to understand the bigger picture of what you are buying.  With just a few tips in mind, you can acquire beautiful vintage jewelry with confidence.

1. Invest in a loupe!

GIA jeweler's loupeA loupe, that special magnifying tool you often see jewelers pull out and place on or near their eye, is a must if you hope to make a habit of buying vintage jewelry, whether in person or virtually. Here’s why: the closer you examine a piece of jewelry, the more you notice, both good and bad. You can use a loupe when considering an in-person purchase, to notice details that help you make your decision, or, if you purchase jewelry online, you can examine it after purchase to ensure it matches the seller’s description.  Not thrilled with the idea of spending money on a loupe? Any jeweler worth his/her weight will have a loupe on hand for you to use if you are purchasing jewelry from a brick and mortar store. Simply ask them.

2. Look closely & pay attention to details

So now you’ve got your loupe, or even if not, it’s time to look closely at your piece, in hand or through photos from an online seller.

First – look for hallmarks of any kind.

Antique 22k gold 1921 wedding band
This antique ring from 1921 has a purity mark of “22k”.

There are usually two types of hallmarks, although for European-made jewelry there may be more.  One type of hallmark is for the metal itself, called a purity mark, such as “sterling” or “14k” (gold) stamps.  While a metal mark isn’t 100% dependable – sometimes items were stamped as solid gold, for instance, and they may just be gold plated – a metal mark is at least a starting place to begin to uncover the story of your piece.  Next, look for a maker’s mark; maker’s marks tell you who made the piece of jewelry.


antique 15k gold pearl and turquoise 1870 ring.
Like a fingerprint, the hallmarks in this ring tell you that it’s 15k gold, and was made in 1870 in Birmingham, England.

This too isn’t a perfect clue, as many times American made jewelry wasn’t hallmarked in any way. European jewelry, however, has had a required hallmarking system for centuries, and some European pieces will even have date marks to tell you exactly when the piece was made.   There are many books out there to help you decipher your maker’s mark, and of course there are also famous jewelry designers’ marks to keep on the lookout for when purchasing pieces – Belais of the 1920’s or Ostby & Barton of Titanic fame, for instance – which will not only immediately date a piece of jewelry, but often can make it more valuable as well.

Antique 1920's Belais white gold wedding band.
A Belais white gold wedding band – a famous Art Deco manufacturer.

Secondly – look at the condition of the vintage jewelry.

Remember that all vintage jewelry has years, decades, perhaps even centuries’ of wear.  So don’t expect a perfect piece; in fact, too perfect of a piece may indicate it’s reproduction jewelry.  The wear to a piece is its story, its imprint of memories.  However, it’s important, particularly if you are making a bigger investment, to look closely at the condition of the jewelry, and/or the condition report and photos which a seller provides.

Antique 1930's silver and garnet earrings
These earrings are actually different lengths due to a poor repair job in the past. We’ve discounted these to reflect this condition issue.

When it comes to jewelry, some of the usual suspects in terms of condition issues which are easily visible with the naked eye (or a loupe) include chipped, cracked or badly scratched stones (diamonds can withstand quite a bit more of wear, so colored stones and white sapphires, etc, are those that most exhibit surface wear), loose stones (tip: shake the ring next to your ear and listen for the stone jostling around!), missing stones, very thin or broken prongs around a stone, chips or cracks in enamel, an overly thin band, or broken filigree.  Many condition issues can be fixed by a reputable jeweler.

3. Know your eras

You don’t have to know everything about jewelry to buy jewelry – it takes more than a lifetime to learn it all! Like everything, however, some knowledge can go a long way.  In the case of jewelry, you’ll want to do just a bit of research to understand the different jewelry eras – Georgian, Victorian, Art Nouveau, Edwardian, Art Deco, etc. – as that information will not only help you understand what you like most, but it will also help you pick out those hidden treasures, and to know if the information you’re being given on an item from a seller is accurate.

Antique Victorian late 1800's sterling silver buckle locket.
Buckle motifs were common in the Victorian era.
Antique Victorian black enamel and pearl mourning locket.
Similarly, the use of black enamel with a single pearl in this locket – an indicator of mourning jewelry – the evidence of age on the clasp and hinge, and the age of the photo inside, help you date it to the Victorian period.

For instance, if you find a platinum ring and it’s being sold as a Georgian ring, that dating is inaccurate, as the Georgian period was from 1714-1837, and platinum wasn’t in widespread use until the early 1900’s.  Silver was a more common setting material for the Georgian period.  Or, you may find jewelry that, upon close inspection, has a piece of cloth, or even hair, within it, a common bit of artistry from the Victorian period.  You can work backwards as well – that’s often how I learn jewelry best! – by Googling a particular feature, hallmark or other characteristic you’ve found on your mystery jewelry.

Art Deco 1920's 14k gold and amethyst charm necklace.
The cutouts and curves of this piece are an Art Deco feature which help you date it.

4. Purchase from a reputable seller

Particularly when purchasing online, but even when purchasing in person, know as much as you can about the person selling the item.  Reviews on sites like Etsy or Ebay – you’ll see our shop has a 5 star review status! – or well established jewelers or shows in your area, give you a good idea of the customer experience, and whether or not that seller can be depended upon to sell good, accurately described jewelry.  Never hesitate to ask the seller questions as another source of information; reputable sellers will be happy to answer your questions and even send you additional pictures or videos if they sell online.  When purchasing higher-end jewelry with stones, you should look for sellers who are certified gemologists with GIA, or are on that path (such as myself), or who have their jewelry examined and assessed by those who are GIA certified.  Without this knowledge, it can be impossible to accurately identify some jewelry, particularly the stones, as some differing stones can look exactly the same to the untrained eye.

Buy from stores that have a good return policy, and clear communication around purchases, so that you can feel secure in your purchase.  Lastly, the best part about a reputable seller is that s/he is usually a font of wisdom about jewelry! Ask lots of questions, and learn as much as you can.

5. Most importantly – buy what you love!

Even as a vintage seller myself, one of my biggest rules is that I buy what I love, not just what will sell or is a good deal.  I recommend the same for you.  When you go to make your purchase ask yourself – do you love it? Will you wear it often, or, is it a special occasion piece that will make you smile each time you wear it? Does it fit well and comfortably? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so find what you like and adorn yourself with those treasures.

Good luck with your vintage shopping! Always reach out to me if you have any questions on your vintage journey!



Valentine’s Gift Guide

Valentine’s Day is rooted in the Roman festival of Lupercalia, a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman God of agriculture, and Roman founders Remus and Romulus. The ins and outs of the festival are quite weird – animal sacrifice, slapping woman with the animal hides which was believed to make them more fertile, etc, etc – but the connotation with love and fertility stuck.  The celebration of Valentine’s Day didn’t begin until much later, with Valentine greetings beginning in the Middle Ages, and the first written valentine happening in 1415 when Charles, Duke of Orleans, wrote a poem to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London. Somewhere along the way the holiday was linked to St. Valentine, who married lovers in secret at a time when it was outlawed.

Of course we now have today’s traditions of Hallmark cards, chocolates, and often jewelry.  While we think love should be bestowed everyday, it can be quite fun to give gifts to lovers, partners and friends on Valentine’s Day -or of course, give yourself a little love.  Here is the roundup of our best gift ideas for 2017.


Lockets are always a great gift, especially if you add personal photos.  We’ve been stocking the Etsy shop with new lockets each day – and they’ve been selling out quickly. Here’s a sampling:


Antique Art Nouveau gold filled diamond locket
Antique fleur-de-lis gold filled fob locket
A classic and gorgeous Art Nouveau (early 1900’s) round locket with a single diamond, and a Victorian (late 1800’s) amazing fleur-de-lis fob locket.
Vintage retro 1960's gold filled mom locket
Antique early 1900's sweetheart expansion bracelet with a heart locket
A retro 1960’s locket with “mom” in high relief is about as sentimental as it gets.  Lockets also come in other form – here is a stunning early 1900’s gold filled sweetheart bracelet with a heart locket on the front that holds a single rose cut diamond.

Symbols of Love

Two lovely symbols of adoration which anyone would swoon over this Valentine’s Day – a 14k gold “key to my heart” charm necklace, and a sweet lover’s knot charm with an inset diamond.  Knots have been symbols of love since antiquity, since their threads overlap and are stronger the closer together they are pulled.
Vintage 14k gold key to my heart charm necklace
Antique Victorian 14k gold and diamond lover's knot charm necklace


Antique 800 silver handpainted rose brooch pendant necklace
An antique necklace with a handpainted rose miniature painting. Need I say more?


Nearly every woman loves a pair of diamond studs, as they can be worn with almost any outfit.  These beautiful studs come in at a hefty half carat.  Not looking to spend so much? A vintage gold filled bangle bracelet is sure to do the trick.
Vintage half carat diamond solitaire stud earrings
Vintage 1940's gold filled bangle bracelet


Vintage 1940's gold filled moonstone pendant necklace
Antique 1920's gold lavalier pendant necklace with pearl and white sapphire
A rare 1940’s floating opal necklace – the opal chips float in liquid in a glass globe – is a dainty and beautiful piece.  For more of a statement but an equally delicate necklace, the 1920’s gold lavalier with white sapphire and pearl is elegant and intricate.
Vintage 14k rose gold cigar band with flowers and .45 carats of rubies
vintage ruby solitaire gold ring
Red rubies have long been associated with love, and we have several in the shop. Here is the mama of all ruby rings, with 11 rubies totaling close to half a carat, set into individual flowers on a thick cigar band gold ring.  No less beautiful is this more modern and simple ruby ring.

Handmade Wax Seal Necklaces

Last but certainly not least, we have an array of love themed wax seal necklaces available, each handmade from an antique wax seal stamp.  We have the bestselling rose necklace, the “two hearts as one” seal with a bird descending upon two hearts, a “L’Amour” French necklace, and the ‘I love you” rebus, where an eye, cupid and yew tree spell out the phrase.
Handmade rose wax seal charm necklace
Handmade love charm wax seal necklace
Handmade L'Amour French wax seal necklace
Handmade I love you rebus wax seal charm necklace


The 12 Days Gift Guide – Day 9 – Silver and Gold

Silver and gold, silver and gold

Ev’ryone wishes for silver and gold

How do you measure its worth?

Just by the pleasure it gives here on Earth…

Today we highlight our favorite silver and gold pieces from the shop.  No theme in particular except that these are top-of-mind when we think of the best and most fun pieces we have to offer.  Today’s deal is this: 10% off and free shipping with any of these beauties. Contact us for the code.

Antique 22k gold wedding ring22k gold antique ring



What I love most about this band is how unassuming it looks – it’s just a plain gold wedding band – but how much history and character it holds.  It’s a high carat gold, 22k, and inside the band is a special engraving from the early 1900’s.  It would make an incredibly special modern wedding band or stack ring.

Antique 15k gold turquoise ringVintage sputnik multi stone gold ring

I’ve been in love with this Victorian gold and turquoise ring from the moment it entered the shop.  The variations in the color of the turquoise only come with aged and well loved turquoise – the turquoise changes color as it mixes with everyday oils on the skin.  Then of course we have our ridiculously fun “sputnik” ring with a dome of fiery and sparkling natural stones, from aquamarine and garnet, to citrine and amethyst.  This ring would make the most fun New Year’s Eve adornment!

Pearl and diamond earrings

Antique garnet double snake rose gold ring

I typically am not a fan of pearls, but in this case I just fell in love with these vintage pearl and diamond earrings.  They make me dream of a vintage wedding, or a grand New Year’s Eve party.  They are subtle, but the size of the pearls and the overall flower design give these great character.  To the right is one of my all-time favorites, the double-headed snake ring with garnets, hailing from the early 1900’s.  This ring is actually two that were soldered together at some point in its history, perhaps as a gesture of love in this life, or perhaps a mourning sentiment.  It’s a gorgeous piece in a large size, so it would make a great men’s wedding band.

Diamond and Green chyrosphrase broochThird carat engagement ring


With over 1.5 carats of diamonds and luminescent green chyrosprase, this Art Nouveau brooch is hands-down one of the most unique and stunning pieces in the shop.  And then we have an Art Deco white and yellow gold engagement ring with over 1/3rd of a carat of diamonds.  While I’m already married, engagement rings of this sort with such a vibrant diamond and such intricate and feminine details, always make me swoon.

Antique carnelian intaglio gold ring

Look at that handsome profile!  From the beautifully carved carnelian stone to the buttery gold, this intaglio ring is a fabulous signet style piece.  Everytime I wear it, I run my fingers continuously over the gold; it has the smoothness that only comes with decades of wear.

modernist sterling silver woman necklace

Vintage Scottish Terrier brooch


On the silver side, sometimes it’s those that are the funkiest that I love best.  Here we have a modernist African style folk art piece, an abstract version of a woman.  It’s really interesting, and would definitely make for a conversation piece.  On the right is the adorable marcasite and sterling Scottish Terrier brooch, perfect for the dog lover.

Vintage sterling silver and glass amethyst bracelet

Perhaps it’s the combination of a masculine chain with feminine purple stones, or perhaps it’s the intricate detailing on each of the links.  No matter which way you cut it, this antique bracelet, with its aged patina, is just a stunning piece.  It can be worn everyday, or would be great for the rustic vintage bride.

Forget-me-not custom wax seal necklaceShaken but steady wax seal

Lastly, the holidays are not easy for everyone, including myself. It can often bring up feelings of things lost, or difficulties experienced.  So these two wax seals have been selling quite a lot lately, and they both come straight from my own grief experience, and my own heart.  On the left we have a custom forget-me-not wax seal piece with a hand stamped initial charm – the initial symbolizes the person or animal lost.  And on the right we have the “Shaken but Steady” seal with a compass, a piece for the person who has gone through a difficult time with optimism and steadfastness (or who needs a little of that).  If you know someone experiencing difficulty, particularly in the holiday season, these two make wonderful gifts.